Friday, July 17, 2009

Do you know what "U" want?


Ok guys and girls I'm feeling inspired and I feel like I have a blog that is worth sharing. After days of reading " The Vixen Manual (How to find, seduce and keep the man you want)" and talking to my dear friends I have realized that one of the hardest things for an individual is knowing what he or she wants. That includes wants in career, mate, and especially self. Even though this book is an overall self help for women in ever aspect of life I have taken ad heave to the "Goals" and "Worth" chapters the most. I have revamped my focus and tuned back in with my "Main Player"which is I. Sometimes it's easy for one to forget "I" and become distracted in what others want of you, instead of what you want from U. While reading this book (which I am still doing) I start remembering my dreams and goals such as, Where do I see myself in 5yr? Do I have the beautiful black chromed out Rang Rover I love so much? Do I own my own home? Have I finished school with 2 degrees? Do I enjoy and do my best at my job? These are goals and aspirations of mine that I want to have and will have, as long as I stay focus on "I". For those of us who have parents who want to tell you who you should be and what you should have remember: "We come from our parent but we Are Not Them". Think about what you want and follow it because at the end of the day your stuck with the journey you took, don't you want to be happy with the outcome? Tip: Make a list, short or long, of your goals. Then work towards them. Take a little time out each day to focus on at least one of those goals and watch things fall into place. I'm doing it with you, so no more talking about it just Be About It! xoxoxo

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